Tag: Hard work

Goals

Its A Long Road…

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It’s been a while, and I haven’t given up trying on my dreams. The journey seems so long, and some days are really bad with no hopes and no results. But still I try to get back the next day or day after. One important thing is what I eat affects so much! My eating habits aren’t very healthy, so after waking up when I have a big full breakfast w/ too much carb, I feel so exhausted to work! I recently started doing intermittent fasting. Not for too long, about 13 hours of no food, it may look like pretty normal, but for me it is a big deal, since i used to eat at mid night!! This fasting is helping a little, not a lot, but I am hoping slowly I will be able to increase the fasting hours and have better results. Right now the focus is on just doing it, even for less hours.

Its really hard working when your regular life has no discipline and your day to day activities are pretty mundane, but I guess that is the struggle that I have to work through, to not give up and keep trying. It will soon happen!!

awareness · life

Pain!

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As I face the daily challenges of working hard, building myself, and most times being behind the deadlines, I realized the biggest challenge here is to actually is pain. If I can not embrace the pain, accept it lovingly, be with it, go through it, no challenge in life can be resolved! So I am trying to understand how to love the pain. The pain of waking up early, the pain of not feeling like focusing yet focusing thinking of the real goal, the pain of struggle, the pain of persistence, the pain of giving up the luxuries of watching TV, the pain of not eating just when I want to and what I want to. All these pain, I have to find a way to welcome them, walk with them, only that can lead to a life that I hope for myself. The more I run away from my pain the farther I am going from my goal and closer to real destruction of life.

The choice is clear, I have to be friend with all these pain, I have to embrace it to have a better life.

success

Coming Back Where Left…

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Last few days I kind of drifted away from my goal, it has been hard and not being able to continue what I should have made it harder and I became depressed!

As I was listening to a motivational speech today, I heard the talk about the importance of failure before success. Now, when I used to hear about failure before success I used to think something like failed business before you continue another and become successful when you dont give up. But today as I was listening to the talk I realized the days I am unable to focus, and show up for my tasks towards my goal, are my failure days, so it doesn’t matter if I have failed these days, what matter is how fast I can come back and start from where I left without any procrastination. So, these are failures for me, when its hard to focus, when I am sleepy, when I want to give up, when I am down, I have to remember that no matter how much failure I go through, I am not giving up, and I will be able to reach my goals!

Goals

You Can, You Must

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It was very hard to not fall back to sleep in the morning after waking up, as I am used to doing it a lot :/ The thing I kept reminding myself is I have had enough luxury of resting, its time to get back to hard work or else, I am at the verge of making my very near future a complete disaster!! It will be very painful and not only me, I will put my family members also in a bad situation. So my success not only makes my life better but it also helps my family, friends and many people I know. By working hard and building a better future I can help myself and also, others. The ability to be able to help others is the source ultimate joy & happiness 🙂 But before that I have to fill my cup, instead of pouring from an empty cup!